Better than asking the question so explicitly, consider a more modest approach. He identifies as gay. However, in my defence, there was much going on to encourage me: Hermes You know — people like you fascinate me.
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He ended up giving me a blowjob, and it was completely mind-blowing. Yet another possibility is that fantasizing about straight men may be a way that some gay men feel acceptance. Just before graduation, we ended up hooking up off-base. We shared a room and one day he got out of the shower and walked around the room totally naked and didn't seem to think it was awkward.